What do you expect others to do for you? Why should we expect others to listen to us and act according to our wishes? We have learned from childhood that just as others expected of us, so should we expect of others.
But how beautiful it would be to say: O my soul, rest in peace with God alone, for my hope is in him. He alone is my rock and my salvation and my refuge, so I will not slip. (Psalm 62: 5-6)